The Edge for August 2019
We asked New Jersey business executives to share with us what they would say if they could write a letter to their younger self. The execs said embrace mentors, take chances, own your mistakes and make every moment count. Read more here:
Embrace Mentors and Own Your Mistakes
“I’d recommend to my younger self to always stay true to your core beliefs and embrace mentors early in your career. Don’t think of adopting a mentor as a sign of weakness. A carefully selected mentor can help you see qualities about yourself that you may not otherwise perceive and they can give you a more unique and balanced perspective. I’d also tell my younger self that I'm proud I could own my mistakes and move forward. People often spend too much time rationalizing errors or avoiding fault. You’re never too young (or old) to learn that by being more honest with yourself about how you could’ve acted or communicated differently, the more valuable the lessons you will learn.”
– Diane Wasser, Partner-in-Charge of EisnerAmper’s Pension Services Group
Take a Chance on Yourself
I would tell my younger self not to be afraid of change or taking a chance. Over the years, I have found that thought-out, calculated risks often render positive results. For example, when I began my career, I found myself spread thin supporting several of the firm’s practices and tending to my first child. Longing for greater independence and flexibility, I approached the firm’s leadership with a comprehensive business plan which ultimately served as the blueprint for the launch of a new Family Law Group, as well as a productive means of regaining control over my work-life balance. Thirty-seven years later, the advice still holds. After nearly four decades with the same firm at which I formed that Family Law Group, my group and I have recently transitioned our practices to Chiesa Shahinian & Giantomasi and have enjoyed every minute of it!
– Susan Reach Winters, Chair of Family Law Group, Chiesa Shahinian & Giantomasi PC
You Are the One in Control
Three things I would tell my younger self:
- What you do now will impact your future: The classes you take today, the jobs you choose, and the friends and contacts you make will all impact your future. Make every moment count. Own your decisions, own your life. You are the one in control.
- Do something you enjoy: When making a career choice, the most important factor is finding a job that you enjoy and look forward to. Take ownership of that job and always strive to be better. Never be complacent.
- Don’t quit: Life is never easy or straightforward. Keep in mind that everything is temporary, and present problems will subside. Don’t quit or let obstacles control you. If something is difficult push through. Hard work and commitment always pay off.
– Paula Ferreira, Managing Partner, New Jersey Office at Mazars USA LLP
